Mothering Sunday was also known as ‘Refreshment Sunday’ or ‘Mid-Lent Sunday’. It was often called Refreshment Sunday because the fasting rules for Lent were relaxed, in honour of the Feeding of the Five Thousand, a story in the Christian Bible. Chiddingstone ChurchNo one is absolutely certain exactly how the idea of Mothering Sunday began, but we know that on this day, about four hundred years ago, people who lived in little villages made a point of going not to their local church but to the nearest big church. To what was called the Mother Church. And some would go to the nearest city to worship in the cathedral. (A cathedral is a very large church and the ‘mother church’ of all other churches in that area or ‘diocese’. Canterbury Cathedral is pictured below) Canterbury CathedralPeople who visited their mother church would say they had gone “a mothering.” Young English girls and boys ‘in service’ were only allowed one day to visit their family each year. This was usually Mothering Sunday. Often the housekeeper or cook would allow the maids to bake a cake to take home for their mother. Sometimes a gift of eggs; or flowers from the garden (or hothouse) was allowed. Flowers were traditional, as the young girls and boys would have to walk home to their village, and could gather them on their way home through the meadows.